BAPTISM

There is no required fee. Since it is presumed that the parents belong to the parish and are regularly supporting the Church according to their ability, there is no fee for Baptism. If the parents do live elsewhere and are celebrating the Baptism here for the convenience of the family, a donation to the parish would be very appropriate. It is, however, highly appropriate to give the priest or deacon performing the Baptism a monetary gift as a token of appreciation.

First, only one sponsor is required, and that sponsor may be of either gender. Secondly, although it is preferable that sponsors be present for the Baptism, this is not required. One or both sponsors may be represented by proxy (someone present at the Baptism who speaks for the absent sponsor). There are no special requirements for proxies (they need not be Catholic, for example). Finally, it is not required that godparents be relatives of the parents. If you have further questions about your particular situation, please contact Dcn. Jerome Buhman at dcn.jerome@stamadison.org or 833-2600.

No. The Church does not want the responsibility of sponsors to be diluted. The maximum number of sponsors is two; and if there are two, one must be male and one female.

No. In order to sponsor someone to become a member of the Catholic Church, one must be a Catholic oneself. However, if a child being baptized has only one sponsor, a non-Catholic Christian may serve as an additional witness of the Baptism and be recorded as such. The rules about gender do not apply to a witness; so, for example, a child may have a female sponsor and a female witness. Nor is there any requirement that a witness be an active member of his or her denomination.

Yes – but anyone with an official role in the Baptism (parent, sponsor or witness) should give their attention to that responsibility and not serve as a photographer during the ceremony itself.

A white garment is an ancient sign of the newly baptized Christian’s new life in Christ. Your child’s baptismal garment does not need to be a traditional baptismal or christening gown; it can be any clothing that is mainly white.

No. St. Thomas Aquinas parish provides the candle, as well as the small white garment which will be placed on your child during the baptism.